Now that the Holidays are over and 2009 has begun we can begin to focus once again on our wedding.
Of course it doesn’t help the nerves that now that it is 2009, everything is going in super fast-forward. Or so it seems. Does it feel that way to anyone else? Before the Holidays, I always felt there was a cushion there, a safety net. Tthen they came and went. And now it’s T-minus 4 months and counting and I’m growing a tad overwhelmed and panicky, albeit below the surface. Just below it.
*deep breath*
Things ARE getting done.
Remember how I’d said once our guests have received the Save-the-Dates that YOU’D get to see them? Well here they are:
Ta-da! Save-the-Date magnets from www.vistaprint.com. $1 each. Oh yeah.
You see how it says “invitation to follow” on the bottom there? Well that brings me to my next item of discussion: Invitations!
Adrian and I decided on the style, colors, fonts, and words for our invitations from Twisted Limb Paperworks last week and sent everything in. We should be getting to see the first draft today or tomorrow. I, for one, am SO EXCITED! Seeing our names, our words, our date & location all spelled out on an invitation makes it REALLY real! It’s concrete once it’s on an invitation. No going back! 
And that makes me happy.
Of course for pictures of these, you’re really going to have to wait. We won’t be sending them out until mid-March.
Next on the list:
- Decide upon a place to hold our Rehearsal Dinner. So far we’ve got FARM, Finch’s Brasserie, and DeAngelo’s in the running. We’re leaning toward DeAngelo’s.
- Meet with Jon C. to go over ceremony stuff.
- Start writing our vows!
- Plan a little something special for our out-of-town guests.
- Actually HEAR BACK FROM OUR CATERER! and book all that.
I suppose it’s all moving right along and I need to take more deep breaths. More to come as updates continue!
Thanks for reading!
Jenny the Bride
Filed under: ceremony, officiant, organizing, photographer, planning, the dress
We got our engagement pictures back a couple of weeks ago! They’re awesome and we are in LOVE with them! Jason rocks my socks! Here’s a sneak peek:
To see more & order prints, click here!
Now, on to the “& more” section of this post….
The list further dwindles! To date we have now:
- Created & ordered our save-the-dates (using one of our engagement pictures)! I’ll post a photo of the finished design (created by me and approved by Adrian) once I’m sure most of our guests have received them.
- Chosen our invitations (will order in January). We’re going with tree-free paper with embedded wildflower seeds from Twisted Limb Paperworks! Again, no peeking at the design until they’ve been received!
- Our friend, Jon C., got ordained online! Not sure which site he used, but it’s legit!
- My wedding & rehearsal dresses have been fitted! And believe it or not, I performed the operations myself (eek!)! But it worked! Of course, were they not rather simple in design (no boning or the like), I would NOT have even dreamt of touching the dresses with a needle & thread, but thankfully it IS and I have enough experience to have fitted it myself, saving a load of cash! YAY! My mantra has been since we started planning (heck, since we purchased our own house): Why pay someone else to do it if I can do it myself? Of course, if you follow such words of wisdom, be realistic! Sometimes it is better to trust the professionals!
- In the same vein, I have also almost completely finished adding my own personal design aspects to my wedding gown. I’ve added quite a bit here and there and changed some things about the design, but I am LOVING it more each and every time I touch that thing. Which is a good sign, because I have been known to not leave well enough alone. Thankfully with my own wedding gown I’ve done a good job of Keeping It Simple (SILLY)!
- We’ve just about compiled all of our guests’ mailing addresses. Actually, as of now, we’re just waiting on ONE. (you know who you are!)
- Decided on a ring holder! We’re going to order a custom ring bowl from Paloma’s Nest! I’m so excited because I have been wanting one of these for our wedding since I first saw them! They’re so cute, so unique, and so reusable (another mantra: reduce, reuse, and….you know the rest!)! We’re going to engrave it with “Adrian & Jenny / May 16, 2009″ and tie a ribbon in one of our colors through the holes at the top. After the wedding, we’ll use it as an ornament on our tree every year OR hang it on the wall next to a wedding photo. Kai will now be carring our rings (he wanted–and deserved–an extra, important job), so now he’ll just carry the bowl with the rings!
- I’ve ordered and received all of my rehearsal & wedding day jewelry (all from Etsy. Yes, you remember, I’m the Etsy Freak Bride.).
- I’ve received my headpiece from myrakim (SO pretty!!!)! It’s made with feathers I gathered from my family’s farm in Michigan City, so it’s extra personal!
- booked a ceremony musician! We’ll have a solo violinist, a student from IU Music School. I’m looking forward to this as well because those students?!? AMAZING!!!
- worked out the timeline/style of our ceremony. Not the words yet, but the way things are going to go. We’re doing things a little differently. More on this later.
- Aaaand last but NOT least, I ordered the oft-raved-about work-the-hell-out-of-you workout DVD: Jillian Michaels–30-Day Shred. Yes, that’s Jillian Michaels from “Biggest Loser” TV fame. Yes, she’s called the “toughest trainer”. That’s right. I’m getting in the absolute best shape of my life for our wedding!
Now, let me explore this tangent a little more, do you mind? I’m not in bad shape. I’m a vegetarian, I eat well, I had kept up a pretty decent jogging routine in the warmer months for the past year. When I wasn’t jogging, I was dancing. This is the embarrassing part. I have ANOTHER workout DVD for *ahem* hip-hop dancing *shifty eyes*. It worked me out, though, and it was fun!
Then I got this DVD.
I apparently didn’t know what working out was.
Ho. Ly. Crap (I’ll keep this kid-friendly).
The workouts (there are three levels) are only 20 minutes long. But, it’s Jillian, and Jillian does NOT mess around! It’s true, if you want results from ONLY 20 min a day, you’ve got to WORK IT GIRLFRIEND and WORK IT HARD! No breather allowed! No mercy! I’ve only done this once, just started today (in fact only an hour ago) and I can barely even type! I thought I was in shape and BOY I must have been w-r-o-n-g!
All this is to say, if you want results, if you want your ass kicked hardcore in the comfort of your own home, GET THIS DVD.
OK I think that about covers it for now! Be back once more is checked off the list!
Thanks for reading.
Jenny the Bride
Filed under: officiant, organizing, photographer, planning, registries | Tags: engagement session, wedding checklist, wedding registries
I am happy to say the list is dwindling.
Over the past week, we:
1) Blocked hotel rooms for our out-of-town guests at the Days Inn & Hilton Garden Inn in Bloomington.
2) Started our registries! We actually had fun doing this! We went to Bed Bath & Beyond and were able to use the scanning gun to choose our registry items. This was TOO FUN. Adrian personally really enjoyed choosing the cutlery & cookware We also registered at Lowe’s and created an online registry at Wishpot.com.
3) Met with our dear friend, Jon C., and asked him to marry us. He graciously accepted (even said we gave him goosebumps!) and is really looking forward to the “honor”, as he said. We are THRILLED! Jon has been a close friend of Adrian’s since high school and they lived together when Adrian and I started dating. So he’s been there from the very, VERY beginnings of “us”. He was there when Adrian first mentioned me as the “girl at work” he was interested in. He was there when I used to come over, “as friends”, and help Adrian with our art homework. He was there when we would all sit on the couch together (after Adrian and I started dating) and watch old “Friends” episodes on DVD (can’t hide from the truth, boys). He was always supportive, always fun, always a wonderful friend, and we are so excited he’ll be the one to lead the ceremony. He should be getting ordained online anytime now. (Speaking of, anyone know which are the legitimate get-ordained-online sites?)
4) Met with our photographer and close friend, Jason, to go over some details and have our engagement photos taken! It was great to see Jason again. He brought his 9-year-old son Jaden with him, much to Kai’s enjoyment, and while we walked the campus taking pictures, Jaden & Kai ran, jumped, danced, and laughed around us. We are very excited to see the pictures
That’s it for now! We’re moving right along at a steady pace, and things are getting done!
I’m going up to Michigan City to see my family this weekend. I’m going to bring my wedding dress so they can see it. I’m so excited to show it off! There are some things I want to do to it before my trip, though, so I’ve got to get started!
Till next time!
Jenny the Bride
Filed under: Caterer, DJ, officiant, planning, reception, the dress | Tags: bloomingfoods, Caterer, dance machine, djs, etsy dress, officiant, tom marshalek, wedding
First off:
THE DRESS IS DONE!!!! eeeeeeeee!!!!!!
Ok now that I’ve got that out of my system I can move on.
NO wait. Seriously. MY wedding gown. My custom-made wedding gown. is finished. and it’s beautiful. and by next week, I should be able to put it on! It’ll be moments like that that I’m glad Adrian’s at work all day and I’m at home alone so I can prance around in it and edit pictures in it…
Second update:
We met with our first choice for a caterer (Bloomingfoods Co-op) and decided on a DJ (Tom Marshalek with The Dance Machine).
Adrian and I both knew going into this that we wanted a fun party for our closest friends and families. What better way than with good food and good music?! To be honest, Adrian wasn’t all gung-ho about the DJ thing like I was. He still isn’t. But in my line of work, I’ve seen a TON of DJs. I totally get why he’s a little scared. I’ve seen the cheese in person. I’ve seen the DJs that don’t know when to be quiet, or the ones that don’t realize this isn’t a show all about them, or the ones that totally didn’t listen to the bride & groom’s requests and just played whatever they want. I’ve even seen the DJs that will stop a song that’s rocking out before it’s over leaving dead silence hanging in the air while the crowd that was just having a good time groans in disappointment.
But our guy is not these guys. I’ve seen some great ones too in my line of work, don’t get me wrong. But Tom is the absolute best choice for us. He and I have worked together at two wedding receptions in the past couple of years. Only two, and at these two he impressed me exponentially. We even got to talk quite a bit at the most recent one only this past month. He’s a lot like us. Heck, we even found out recently that he’s our neighbor! He lives like one street over. How small a world is it?! Anyway, he gets it. And he truly loves what he does and I feel that really makes a difference. When vendors “do weddings” just to make money, or in their “off season”, you can tell. When they do it because they love it, it shows. Tom is excellent, end of story. Adrian still may be a little hesitant, but he won’t regret it. I appreciate so much his trust in me in this. And for the record, this is the only aspect of our wedding planning so far on which we haven’t seen eye-to-eye. I mean, iPod weddings may work for some, but for a rockin’ party, you need someone whose sole purpose is to crank out some excellent music!
As for Bloomingfoods, we both agreed on this from the beginning. After meeting with the super-friendly and totally laid-back (like us) Alan Simmerman from the near west side store, we felt even more sure about our decision. We’re still awaiting a price estimate which will help us make our final choice, but we’re pretty set on them. All organic, vegetarian, and super ridiculously delicious food. How can you go wrong?
In other planning news, we’ve also discussed the whole officiant thing. I mean, technically, the officiant is the most important (read: necessary) vendor. And when we think about it, it feels very strange to us to have anyone marry us that doesn’t already know us well. So we’re heading very seriously down the track of having a friend who gets ordained online marry us. We discussed possible friends of ours over lunch one day and came up with a couple of names. We’ve since narrowed it down to one that we think is the best for the job. Next step: Asking said friend. And no, we’re not giving away the name until he/she is asked! :) Nice try, though.
So yeah, I think that about covers it on the wedding planning front. More as things progress!
Jenny the Bride
