As non-traditional as Adrian and i may be, we wanted our beloved brothers (“The Jons”) to stand beside us on the wedding day as wedding party members. For a while we didn’t think we’d even have a wedding party, that it would just be the two of us and Kai (Adrian’s son). However, the more I got to thinking about it, I wanted my little brother to stand beside me as my “man of honor”. When I brought this up to Adrian, he thought it was a great idea and decided to ask his brother to stand beside him as a groomsman, thus creating a wedding party.
I called my brother last week to ask him and he was thrilled! It made me so happy to hear the smile in his voice and know that this was something that he would look forward to and enjoy so much 
Adrian called and asked his brother last week as well and he accepted, but not without some ribbing from what I hear. I think that’s more common between two brothers than it is between a sister and a brother
So now our wedding party is complete: Us, “The Jons”, Kai (best man) and Vienna (flowergirl). We are both honored to have these much loved people by our side when we say our vows!
Jenny the Bride
